As of today I am officially single.
For the last month or so my ex has been working to get our marriage annuled; it turns out she was still married when she married me so legally we could not be married when we got married… And today the judge there in Washington state agreed and with the stroke of a pen I was never actually married in the first place.
It's weird, but such is the way of the legal system.
As for me, it really makes no real difference as we've been separated for over a decade and there's no mutual anything involved. All I had to do was sign a box agreeing to this fact.
I guess that's that then.